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So how can we help people who are dying? If you remember what I said at the beginning of this article, the frame of mind that you are in at the moment of death colors the place where you will find yourself in the 4th Dimension. What you can do as a service to a person who is dying is to observe where they are in consciousness. A lot of people resist the dying process because they have what we call unfinished business. So you may have a person who is dying, who has a son that he has not seen for 10 years, where they parted in acrimonious circumstances. It may be that this person will hang on, and hang on because he wishes to heal the rift with his son. When you come to the end of your incarnation everything becomes clear; all of the stuff, the personality stuff, the ego stuff, drops away. You are as clear as a bell for the last three days of your incarnation. This is when people want to tie up any loose ends, and put things right. What you can do is a service, and what people will do as a service in the future, is that you make sure that you can do everything possible in your power to help that person finish any business they may have on the 3rd dimensional plane, so that when they take their last breath they leave no unfinished business behind. There is no fear, no anger, no worry, they have said goodbye to everybody that they needed to.
In the West, there has been a perception that you cannot take children into see a person who is dying. This has caused immense suffering to the dying person who wishes to connect with those children but is denied the opportunity. This comes from an inappropriate perception that the children will be upset by seeing a person who is dying. In my experience this is not the case. I have allowed my children to visit relatives on the day they were dying, and my children accepted what was there. When my stepfather died I recognize that he was grieving the fact that he could not see my children. I therefore brought them to see him on the afternoon of the day that he died. They thought it was great and so did he. It was only after they left that I realized he had been hanging on to say goodbye to my kids. Once that had been done he went into a space of total peace, and that night he left. My kids did not process, they did not go into fear, and ultimately were very glad that they could see that person for the last time. For the person who is dying, if they leave this incarnation in a space of regret, this will colour where they end up on the 4th Dimension.
So this is the service that we can do. We can perceive where the person is in consciousness and do our very best to bring before that person all that they need to sort out, so that when they take their last breath they take it in total peace, and joy, and happiness; because if that is the space they are feeling when they die, that is where they will end up on the 4th Dimension: a place of peace, joy, and happiness.
Our vision, Christine and my vision, is that some day in the near future there will be hospitals which specialize in helping people to die well; where people will go to understand the process of leaving the incarnation and to embracing that process. It will be staffed by people who wish to be in their space, and to do their spiritual practice by helping these people to die well. They will dedicate themselves to accompanying these people to the very gates of death, so they do not go through the process alone. They will embrace the energy of death, which is renewal, and use that space to transform their own consciousness.
So we need to embrace the fact that death is not an ending, it is just a change in perception. As this realization comes in, many more people are now being able to see clairvoyantly, to see psychically. As we embrace the fact that death is not an ending, the human race in the West is expanding their perceptions to embrace this. More and more people are now recognizing that what we perceive in this reality is just a small part of a bigger picture. This is part of the overall activation of consciousness which the energies of the Ascension are bringing in for the human race. This is going to pop the bubble of the perception that this is all there is.
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